Just Right

June 24, 2012

So, in my meetings today, God truly guided their words to my soul. The messages were based on a talk from Neal A. Maxwell, who truly is inspired and called of God.

First, was the repeated lesson that our trials are never going to be pleasant, no matter how hard you try to convince yourself. This is a lesson I've been learning, because of my honest effort to endure well. It is hard for me to balance everything sometimes and it often feels like we're supposed to be happy all the time because of our testimony that it will be for the best in eternity. I am so grateful for the understanding that it is not supposed to be that way. Trials are always going to be hard and awful. A great attitude helps, but it is always going to hurt. Now, the trick is getting the balance just right--Luckily I've got my whole life, so as long as I keep striving, I will be ok.

Another lesson that truly helped me is that one speaker helped give me a concrete example of the difference between enduring and enduring well. See, all of us will endure. That's not the challenge. So, how do I endure well? She gave the example of Nephi and Laman and Lemuel (see this link). The three brothers were given a task from the Lord, each of them followed obediently. However, only one endured well: Nephi turned to the Lord repeatedly, and kept a good attitude as he was being stretched. I know that if we are meek, we will be stretched, and we will grow as our relationship with God develops. Press forward, Saints! I love that song.

Look around you, and find things to be grateful for, see the hand of the Lord in your every-day life. Remember that life is going to be awful at times, things are going to be so hard, but as they are, turn to the Lord for help. People have agency, and sometimes we bring to pass our own trials and hardships, or others inflict their will upon us. We can still have faith as we struggle, as we cry out for help, for that truly is an act of faith.

Sometimes we need to get a new 'prescription' for our spiritual eyes. When life doesn't go as planned, and your relationships are strained, get a new perspective, work hard to listen to the Spirit.

God helps people change internally, who then change their circumstances.

We know enough, our characters are strong enough to move forward in faith. Just keep asking for help and direction, and somehow, you will find the faith you need in your heart.

Remember the joy and peace the gospel brings. Remember to live it every day and share it with those around you. Everyone needs a little help somehow, and you were put into the place you are so that you can help.